Tips on making girl feels good on your first date.

This is my personal opinion only.

1. Check a little bit on her background during chat or facebook to know what type of person is she. Student? Worker? Professional? Businessman? Entrepreneur? Dress accordingly. Don't wear formal, tie and coat if she is student. This will make her feel not comfortable.

2. Ask question to her about herself. Talk less about yourself unless she asked a lot about you. 

3. Ask her what to eat on the menu and help her to order it. 

4. Choose a suitable place for the date. Don't pick noisy place. Choose place with some people but not too many people.

5. Don't simply touch her. Respect the girl and she will respect you back.

6. Talk the way she talked to you. If she talks fast, you should not talk too slow. If she talks a lot, let her do so.

7. Listen to what she said and ask question accordingly. Don't ask question that is totally different than what you and her discussed.

8. Sometimes a moment of silence is good too. 

9. Don't eat too fast, it will cause her to eat faster and feel uncomfortable.

10. Don't eat too less. She will not dare to eat much if you do so.

11. Don't eat too much, you will scare her off.

12. Pay for the bill, don't be a jackass. 

Date with strangers experience.

I had asked many girls out for dinner and movie. If you consider dinner and movie privately with a girl at some nice restaurant as a date, then i had been on many dates. 

Just sharing some of my experience. Strangers that I date are really from online dating website. Some of them are a bit desperate to find boyfriend but some of them are just trying to make more friends so they can do their business better. Like what I did before. The group of people that I meant is insurance agent and direct sales distributor. Both of these group of people hope to meet as much friends as before. Although some might really end up become a couple after some dates, the chances to get together with these 2 groups of people are really rare.

So most of the people who are using these dating websites with the original intention and purpose of them had less choices to choose from. Most of the girl and boy that i met from these web are either introvert, which mean does not know how to socialize well, or not so good looking physically, like don't know how to make up, fat or etc. Well, you can say that might be true for me because I am using them too. Its not totally wrong. I am sometimes introvert and I am not so good looking physically. Hahahaha.

Although I am not so good looking physically, I had been quite an ass. Quite picky on most of the thing. Whenever i date a girl and the feeling is not right, i will not date that girl anymore. I found out that this is not only happening to me. Some girls that I met also did the same. Its some sort of signal like "we are not really suitable together, let's not waste our precious time".

Some of you might say, "oh my, why not just going out as friends first". Well, I am meeting a strangers that i know not much about. If i bring her to meet my friends, my friends will thought I had some feeling for her. If we went out privately, it will feel like we are having a date. So in the end, i think not meeting up is a better choice. I don't feel guilty or anything too. Its not like I did anything to her on the first date too.

Tip on making her feels good at the first date on next post.

Darren Liew and Amy Cheah Wedding

This is the second dinner i went to since i come to KL. They are Darren Liew and Amy Cheah. Both of them are my friends from Amway. Between them, i get to know Amy first because Amy is Sharon's friend which is an active member when we first start joining in. Then Sharon become inactive and Amy become a strong leader. 

After few months, a new member joined in which is Eunice. She sign up a new member named Alven. Then Alven sign up Darren and from there, Darren and Amy get to know each other. After few months they get in touch, they finally coupled up and live together. Honestly, this wedding is a bit sudden but nevermind, both of them are happy and now leading a healthy life. 

Their wedding dinner tonight is really the most enjoyable so far. We get to sing song in the dinner. I feel so enjoy when i got to sing and 7 tables people get to hear my singing. First time so many audience so far. Hm... nope, i think when i solo in church before, there are more people. There should be at least 100-200 people listening to my singing last time.

In process of make up.

Still make up - ing

Wai Choon is trying to take picture of his own.

Another friend, Che Ho is taking picture of his own.

Two pretty girl at the table.

A happy couple.


Why there is no picture of the bride and groom? I will try to update this post whenever i get it because the professional cameraman is the one responsible for it. So whenever he post it, i will download all the picture i want.

Just like an old time

Went to Sri Petaling last night to help Kevy to do her homework. Just like an old time. She cannot do much php work, i need to help her do it. Just this time, we are doing it as friends (Those who don't know who is her, she is my ex gf).

Doing her final year project, the pet shop management system, is not hard but its taking time. And i feel so strange, cause sometimes, it got too quiet but its alright, since i need to do coding, so i need a quiet environment.

We went to old town white coffee nearby there. Ordered some food and i continue helping her doing her homework. Done 2 features in 3 hours, my brain is getting tired. Luckily i sleep early last night and i ate a lot of nutrilite supplement. Still can continue to do if needed but she suggested to continue other day. So i make it Saturday night. Need to drive so far again on Saturday night. But the coding is not easy but not as hard as what i do in office. But its tiring to continuously coding for the whole day.

In Love?

Since not really many people will come across this blog, i guess this is a good place for me to write whatever i want. :D

When i saw so almost all of my friends are having girlfriend and boyfriend, actually i thought of having one myself too. But its just hard to decide who to go for. Since there are too many good girls around me. 

Almost all the girls that i like is younger or same age with me.

2 of the same ages, 1 of them is 3 years younger, 1 of them is 7 years younger and another one is 8 years younger. Omg, am i a lolicon? Hahaha

I really should set down properly and think what should I do. Shouldn't mess around again like what I am doing now. 

God, please give me strength and health to do what I should. :D