Valentine's Day

Today is Valentine's day. 

I am still single. Maybe will be double in relationship soon. Many things happened lately. I saw a lot of couples in facebook posting their happy couple outing picture. Even though i am single, i still feel happy for them. 

Last night, my friend gave me an advise, if you are having trouble to choose among few girls, choose the one you think you can stay with her for long term, not the one that is just playing around. After he said that, i straight away have someone in my mind. I believe she is the right one as God had given me some hint. Thanks God for blessing my life in these 2 years. 

Today is the exact 2 years that I broke up with my ex girlfriend. She had got married few months ago. I am happy for her and i give her my full blessing. I wish her all the best in her family, careers and health too. Our moment is short but it was fun and memorable.

Now, i do believe in one things. I don't want to fall in love with someone. I want to grow in love with someone. Everything that fall will shatter but everything that grow remains stable and firm. The love build around God as base is a very firm relationship. Nothing can break them. I saw a lot of many successful couple get married when they build the love relationship with God as their base. However, i won't deny that some people played with the girl in church because that's the place girl give their trust easily. They will thought everyone in church is trustable but in the end, there are still some people in church that will harm them and betray their trust.

Anyway, its a Valentine's Day. Happy Valentine's day to everyone who read my blogs. Wish the couples out there happy always and please treat each other better. Also wish the singles out there found their true love as soon as possible.

Home~

I searched for the definition of 'home'. It is the place where you live permanently or the place where you can get supervision and care. Then i can say my home is Petaling Jaya. I live in Petaling Jaya permanently and I basically didn't get special care or supervision from anyone.

I also searched for the definition of hometown. It's the place where you were born or the place you grow up.

So i can say my hometown is Sibu but definitely my home is Petaling Jaya now. I really like my home now. I don't mind if I don't have family here. I have a lot of friends that can give me almost the same feeling as family. Furthermore, my relatives in Bintulu will welcome us to go to their place anytime we want. Pretty much everything i needed right now can be fulfilled.

We (my brothers and I) visited my relatives house and stayed over there during the Chinese New Year. It felt more like a family than chinese new year with my dad only in Sibu. More people, more fun. It felt really good. However, the problem with my relatives is they started to ask about our girlfriend. My brothers and I, we are all single. Without knowing the reasons why we are still single, they started to say things like "i hope this year is the last time i give you ang pao" or "come come, eat the egg, then next year bring a girlfriend back here"

So now we are back to normal life. Girlfriend or not, i will just let it be natural. I don't want to force out things.