Law of positive and negative

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Positive and negative always attract each other. It had been a common sense that been set to our mind since we are young. However, there are a certain situation where negative attract negative.

What i meant here is for human being. Most of the time, people who think negatively will attract more negative people. Who are the people considered as negative?

If you always do the following, you are considered as negative people. :)

-Always sigh

-Always complain when you have no enough money

-Always talk bad about other people with your close friends

-Always think of the world is not fair and unbalanced.

-Always tell people to stop day dreaming

-Always ask people from a bad point of view. Example of this is like when your exam result is announced, you asked "How many subjects you fail?". Asking like this is somehow hoping that person fail more subjects than you.

So are you a negative person? Don't worry, you can try to be positive just by changing a little bit of your behavior.

-Instead of always sigh, you can keep telling yourself, "i can do better", "failing this will not slow me down", "i still have a big room of improvement"

-Instead of always complain when you have no enough money, you can work harder to find more. Youngster and teenagers is full of energy and have a lots of time, its no harm to work a little bit harder than elderly to earn more money.

-Instead of always talk bad about other people with your close friends, why not talk about their advantages and their strong point. For example, previously you will say "He is really talkative, i really hate listening to his chattering all the time", you can change your way of talking to "He really has a lot of opinion, we can consult him with some matter when we are clueless".

-Instead of always think the world is not fair and unbalanced, work it out to show the world that it is fair to whoever worked hard enough.

-Instead of always ask people to stop day dreaming, ask them how they gonna achieve their dream

-Instead of ask people from bad point of view, ask them from good point of view. 

If you are negative enough, you will always attract negative people. However, there is one main elements that affect a person's positivity and negativity. The "ENVIRONMENT".

The environment, especially employees in company will never stop talking when they are in office. It is because they have nothing else to do other than talking with their friends. Once they finish all their own stories or introduction, they will start with others stories. Then it will become gossip. And sooner or later, they start backstabbing. 

My own experience, when I was in my second company, there are only a few people in the office, and there is a company at the other side of the company that I was in, but we are not getting along very well. I remember my colleagues that time keep on badmouthing them. Saying their quality of work and etc etc. After i left the company, i met up with my friend in that company and i found out he is still the same, still like to badmouth other people. This let me feel that environment really is important. Negative environment will always be negative. If you are inside a negative environment, you might want to get to some positive environment once in a while.